By Matt GP Tom
“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.” (Philippians 2:3-4, NIV)
Apostle Paul asks the Church at Philippi to change their focus from self-centeredness to selflessness, in such a way so that they can start mirroring the heart of Christ.
Imagine a room lit only by a single candle. As more candles are added, the room becomes brighter, illuminating every corner. In the same way, when we prioritize others and their needs, we reflect the light of Christ in the world. Through acts of kindness, compassion, and love, we collectively brighten the lives of those around us.
Luke 10:38 to 42 tells us about Martha and Mary two sisters but with two contrasting personalities. Martha was busy with many tasks, while Mary sat at Jesus’ feet, eager to learn from Him. When Martha expressed her frustration over Mary being unavailable to help her out with work, Jesus gently reminded her that Mary had chosen what was better. This narrative serves as a powerful reminder that sometimes, in our pursuit of doing, we forget the importance of simply being present with others.
Everyday life provides numerous opportunities to live out Philippians 2:3-4. It might be holding the door for a stranger, offering a listening ear to a friend in need, or taking a moment to check in on a neighbor. Even the smallest gestures, when done with a heart of humility, can have a profound impact on those we encounter.
Picture a conversation where two friends take turns listening and sharing, each valuing the thoughts and feelings of the other. This reciprocal exchange fosters deep connections and mutual understanding. Philippians 2:3-4 calls us to engage in such conversations, seeking to understand the concerns, dreams, and struggles of those around us.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father,
We come before you with hearts full of gratitude for the example set by Jesus, who, in His humility, valued us above Himself. Lord, help us to embody the spirit of Philippians 2:3-4 in our daily lives. Teach us to put others first, to consider their needs and interests as important as our own.
May we be instruments of your peace, spreading kindness and love wherever we go. Open our eyes to the opportunities you place before us, that we may serve with joyful hearts. Help us to be present with those around us, to listen and understand, and to share in both their joys and sorrows.
In Jesus’ Name we pray, Amen.
